I’ve been on this financial independence journey for less than two years, but in those two years I’ve never really heard of anyone in the “real world” talking about financial independence. That’s partially the reason I started this blog so that I could share my journey and discuss financial independence with like-minded individuals, because it seems to be voodoo outside of this community.
Something happened the other week that took me by surprise. Financial independence and related topics reared their head THREE times in one week! I was happier than a kid in a candy shop. I remember texting my girlfriend right after one of the encounters because I was just so happy and had to tell someone. My first encounter was in a very public environment, which made it that much more surprising.
About two weeks ago I was at a work conference in the Midwest. I was in a room full of around 400 accountants and people with financial jobs. At one point during the conference there was a panel of three people with some pretty fancy financial titles from some big companies giving a talk. When it got to the end of the panel discussion, they asked the attendees to ask questions. One woman asked if they could discuss any adversity they have encountered in their careers and how they overcame it.
One of the panelists told a story about how when he was about 30, he was asked by his boss to do some sketchy things at work (accounting things). He hated this and it stressed him out greatly. He told his boss he wouldn’t do what he was asked and called his wife to warn her he might get fired. He told himself that day that he would live a life of financial independence, and subsequently paid off his mortgage and all his debt so that he never had to rely on his biweekly paycheck to live again. Right here I was wondering what was going through everyone else’s head as they listened.
He didn’t want to have to do something his bosses said that he didn’t feel was right, just because he needed the paycheck. I don’t believe he was fired, and it seems like it was a happy ending.
Unfortunately I didn’t muster up the courage to walk up to him after and ask him about his financial independence journey, but he is probably in his mid 40’s now and I am definitely curious if he’s actually financially independent and working because he enjoys it, or for other reasons.
The Business Owner
A cool part of my job is I get to meet a lot of business owners and entrepreneurs. I had a meeting with a business owner down South. I never know what to expect when I go to these meetings as the personalities I’ve encountered are always something different. This time I was pleasantly surprised.
The business owner pulled up to the meeting in a Honda Accord, he wore a Timex watch that had to of cost less than $40, and his khakis which he was wearing were probably given to him for Christmas ten years ago. He was in his mid to late 50’s and had removed himself from the day-to-day operations of his business, which I don’t see very often with many of the type A business owners I run into who have trouble letting go and passing the reigns on to other qualified people.
He had left the room at one point and one of his managers he had in place to run his business couldn’t say enough nice things about the owner – “He is the type of person who knows when enough is enough, it’s a great quality, and you don’t find it in many people anymore.” If I didn’t know otherwise, I would of thought he was an 8th grade science teacher and not a business owner with an eight figure net worth.
Saving His Whole Salary
I was at a work dinner and my boss started talking about his career projection. Who doesn’t love learning the nitty-gritty about their bosses? He talked about how when his wife graduated from law school while they were in their mid-twenties and started working at a law firm, they saved 100% of his salary and about 15% of hers. This continued for eight whole years until his earning potential surpassed hers and she decided to stay home with their kids. I was so into the story as I thought it was awesome, until he started talking about his mansion which he now owns. Of course I Zillowed it and now know where all his net worth is. I’d rather have financial independence instead of a 6,000 square foot home, but to each his own.
I love seeing people practicing financial independence, or at least living within their means. It took two years for me to hear people discussing it in the real world, and somehow related topics came up three times within a one week period. Unfortunately I was brought back to reality on Sunday when my roommate was complaining about how he had to work on Sunday, and I told him to start saving his money so that he doesn’t have to work until 60 and his response was “that’s stupid.”
Has anyone in the “real world” discussed financial independence in your presence? If so, share your story below!